Are Japanese girls easy?

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I've been told Japanese girls are easy and they throw themselves at western men. My boyfriend of 6 years is working in Tokyo for months and he started switching his mobile off in the evenings. I also checked the history on his computer in the home office and in the weeks prior to his trip he was watching all kinds of Japanese pornography. Is it usual for western men to experiment in Japan? I'm thinking about going to Tokyo and catching him out. I know the name of his hotel. Is Shibuya a red light area?

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Shibuya is not particularly a red-light-district, but one of the 23 inner wards of Tokyo city.

A fairly large area, over 200000 people living there.

Around the very busy railway station of Shibuya are plenty of young people and there is a lot of nightlife.

It depends on the area where you go.

Check out:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shibuya,_Tokyo

The English explication is fairly good.

If Japanese girls are 'easy' is a question which is difficult to answer.

For sure, Japan is not like Europe or USA...

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So the only evidence you have is that he watches Japanese porn.. if so pretty much every bloke on the planet is guilty..

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If Japanese girls are 'easy' is a question which is difficult to answer.

For sure, Japan is not like Europe or USA...

I remember wandering around the ruins at Ayutthaya. There was a group of Japanese tourists, all of them young women. In their typically polite manner, they'd give a genuine smile, and stand out of your way to let you pass etc... but it was a really genuine smile, with eye contact, and I couldn't help feeling that if I was inclined, I could have really easily struck up a pleasant conversation with any one of them, and then went on my way... Would I be able to do that if they were from the UK? I don't know, they don't normally smile at me in a way that makes me want to talk to them...

It's very easy for westerners to make generalisations about Asian women. There will always be a handful of Japanese, Thai, Singaporean women that find excitement in the idea of dating, or bedding a westerner, just like sub-type of western girls that find Mediterranean, or African men attractive for the sake of 'experience'...

Shame the OP is probably a troll, this should be an interesting thread.

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Japanese ladies tend to be rather shy until you get to know them. I would not say they were rather easy compared to other nationalities. Sure you will have exceptions, but as a general rule I would say no.

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In the past I have had some good luck with Japanese girls. I remember one in particular, Ayaka, she was amazing. Perfect Engrish, perfect body and a perfect personality. Shame I was a complete c**t back in the day. A complete fanny rat, but I guess we all go through that stage in life.

I agree, the OP is a troll, sounds like the fantasy of some sad case.

I'm off to lament my past misdeeds, bloody cider, it makes me far too maudline.

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Japanese women have the reputation of walking up to western men in the street to talk- and just talk. To practice their English. and that's it. My experience with Japanese, both men and women, is that they are rather reserved at first meeting and most conform to the rigid rules of behaving properly out in public. I'm sure there are women in Japan who are total tarts around foreign men, but that goes for everywhere. I'm certain Singaporean women would not want to be judged by the actions of SPG's, Thai women by BG's, or Australian women by the ones who flock to the wharves when the US fleet sail in to town.

I also agree that the OP is most likely a troll.

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I'm not a troll, i've already been hounded off another website that called me a that. Is it hard to understand i'm jealous and angry and i want to know what hes up to? I hardly sleep while i match the time difference. I just want to know if its a phase you businessmen go through. I coulld get a flight and it's only half a day.

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I don't think Japanese girls are any easier than western girls, unless of course it's a financial transaction, but that's easy anywhere.

Any long term overseas assignment puts strain on a relationship, I know from experience that absence doesn't always make the heart grow fonder. Given the behaviour you describe I would suspect your boyfriend's playing away from home, but he is that, rather than your husband, you've not made that final commitment. I assure you if you were to turn up at his hotel unannounced it would kill any relationship you have, whether you caught him out or not. I also think if he knew you'd been spying on his web browsing proclivities it would kill the relationship stone dead too!

All relationships require trust, long distance more so, they also need a degree of understanding and latitude, few men are saints.

BTW I'm curious as to your moniker "Frump" - is that what you really are? If so it's most likely the reason he watches porn and plays away.

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Well, if he's been looking at Japanese porno he seems to be fascinated by Asian girls. If he really wants to get laid in Tokyo, he won't have much trouble but it wouldn't be with one of the gorgeous girls you see in the porno. Most Japanese don't speak a word of English, so if you do meet one in a Western nightlife area it'll probably be a plain-Jane who wants to have some fun before she reaches the marrying age of 25. If she's past her mid-20s she'll probably be the hard-drinking, chain-smoking type you'll be glad to get away from in the morning. Either way, they won't speak much English and a satisfying long-term relationship won't be viable. On my first trip to Japan I was hit on by a girl in an Osaka pub, but since she wasn't my type and we had to communicate via her electronic dictionary I made my excuses and went back to my hotel. I didn't get any offers in the Roppongi nightlife area of Tokyo but I saw a lot of 30-ish Japanese women in the bars acting like their American sisters, shrieking at the top of their lungs and hugging each other. Yuck.

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Go and see him would be the best bet, he would probably be very pleased to see you

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I wouldnt waste my time going there unless you want to make a holiday of it and see Japan. Personally if you are this suspicious and paranoid - what is the point?

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Is it hard to understand i'm jealous and angry and i want to know what hes up to? I hardly sleep while i match the time difference. I just want to know if its a phase you businessmen go through. I coulld get a flight and it's only half a day.

You're probably figuring out that men actually improve with age, in terms of maturity, experience, and looks, whereas women just go downhill from their mid-teens. What you should have done is bagged someone, married him and had his kids quick smart before he figured this out. Best a man can do is marry for personality and mutual goals... Now he's discovered Asian hot chicks, with nice pert buttocks, and realised that shagging the majority of British girls is like shagging a stale ungrateful swamp that smokes 20 Bensons a day. It might be the case that it's just a phase, before he goes back to Blighty and gets down on one knee, who knows, can't blame a man for seeing what he could have won, I sure don't know anything about the dynamic of your relationship... I say get on that flight, he might even see it as cute and romantic give you a hug and take you for Sushi... On the other hand, he might get real pi#$ed and this stalker freako that followed him all the way to Tokyo, and that'll be the end of that, you'll go home and blame everything on Asian women because they're 'all whores', and it's always someone else's fault isn't it... but at least you'll have had a holiday... Keep the in flight amenity pack as a souvenir... you'll need the memories if you turn into a bitter spinster.

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I don't know about Japanese women but I hope you're right. I do know about Vietnamese women having lived there for a year. They are Sooooooo Easy to pick up that for an older guy like me (59) it's a wonderful ego booster. I had a 28yr old GF most of the year. She cooked for me daily, washed my clothes and gave me sex anytime I wanted it. I gave her a small allowance (to me) of 4 million dong ($200) per month and she in return treated me like no American woman ever did. And NO, she was not ugly. Far from it . Take a look on my private Youtube link>http://www.youtube.c...atQa9k or see the photo below. Now that I'm back in California she has offered to pay my airline ticket if I agree to return to Vietnam. But, I'm looking into maybe going to Japan to check out the women. :bleh:

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Strewth some of that's a little harsh there Mandi, poor girl only asked a question. B)

Mateen: yes as I said, financial transactions are easy, though you're going to get less f### for your buck in Japan.

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Which part? If it were me in that hotel room in Tokyo, and my wife showed up unannounced, while I'd be a bit miffed at the money that was spent unnecessarily, I'd be delighted she was there, and find it warming that she thought enough of me to be jealous of something she'd imagined*. On the other hand, if it was a girlfriend that had been rifling through my desk to spy on me, and then turned up out of the blue to catch me out, it'd be an instant end to the relationship. I had a similar experience in 2003 in Thailand, a hi-so girl that wouldn't give me any opportunity to be alone and do my own thing. She'd have the building staff let her into my apartment and there she'd be waiting for me when I got back. I decided to go to Hua Hin for a few days on my own to get away and she followed me down there the next day! Jeez! Complete control freak. She was also a liar.... Liar + control freak = end of relationship. In saying that, I don't wish to point my finger at the OP. We'll see if she posts again, threads like this are most entertaining.

*This would never happen, my wife trusts me completely. This imaginary scenario is described here for illustrative purposes only.

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That bit was fine and matches my sentiment, it was the other stuff about shagging swamp monsters and embittered old spinsters.

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cute Mateen , cute, fcuk going to yippon

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OK got you... Yes, I do have an unfavourable view of modern British women in general. There are a number of complicated reasons for this I won't derail this thread with. We also get a lot of this on the telly these days... check out the video on the following page, Uggghh: http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b010h79q

If you can't see the video, it's basically a documentary about the amount of pregnant women that just don't give a hoot about their health or the baby's health. Really shocking stuff, and it's really no wonder the Jeremy Kyle show has so much fodder... It's the sort of thing I'm referring to. The contemporary British woman... tattood, smoke, ugly personality, pathological liars, demanding. Why dress it up?... 20% of pregnant women in Britain smoke, 20 percent! That statistic alone is just appalling.

In response to the OP... maybe better to ask, are British girls easy? Perhaps Japanese girls AREN'T easy, and might that be what makes them attractive? This is assuming your boyfriend is playing away, which he might not be...

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I think you should be more worried about the gay Japanese man.. I heard they are extra easy.

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Funny enough met a yank bird on a flight over to bangkok a number of years back. She was from Arkansas and she was heading over to confront her bf about him shacking up with a thai bird. Her feeling was she could win him back if she traveled to bangkok and showed up at his flat. I kind of sympathized with her, but she really had no plan apart from showing up and not sure how it would work if the thai bird was living there with him too. Bit mental if you ask me.... B)

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One way or another, if the girl catches the guy in flagrante delicto, she'll get closure.

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@OP:

I think the best way is just ask the BF.

If he said he don't cheat, means he still want you. Even if he's lie. In fact, if he does lie, it shows that he still wants you enough to bother to lie.

If he admit that he cheat, then you could decide if you still wants him or not.

Even if the woman is easy, it won't work if the man is not interested.

on the other hand, how many times a day you call him? I'm guessing at least once a day, because that's the only way you could know he turn off his cellphone every evening.

Most probably he turn his cellphone off because he wants to get some rest or get some things done and not to be disturbed.

Adjusting yourself to a new country takes time. You need to explore the city to find good place for meal, grocery shopping, good bookstore, no to mention adjusting yourself to the job....

And spending time on the phone listen to day to day activities chat every single day seems a bit of time wasting if you are a person in a new environment.

another note:

Is he really that good catch so you want to spend your hard earned money just to caught him in the act?

Even Victoria Beckham doesn't always follow every move of David Beckham ....and David Beckham supposed to be a good catch.

Edited by xo_artemis

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I've got a Japanese penpal.

She's easy to write to.

Does that count?

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Sounds like you had a great situation mateen why would you want to give that up? ....oung cooks for you and all

What I would like is to find a women like that over here in the states if that were possible

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How did you find the Japanese penpal, Postino? Most Japanese can read and write English, they just can't speak it, so I'd expect it would be easier to find a penpal than a girlfriend.

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You've judged him already. It doesn't matter if he isn't cheating, you do not trust him, and it is unlikely that you will trust him again. You may as well go your separate ways. I recall reading something very similar to this on the POF forums, is this the forum you were referring too?

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Japanese girls are easy when they are abroad, but not usually so easy if you are picking them up in Japan. They aren't particularly difficult in any case, as there are a lot of Japanese girls interested in foreign men.

Your prospects improve with ability to speak their language, and you won't be so limited to girls who target foreigners and hang out at foreigner bars.

There are plenty of conveniently located love hotels across Japan for a quick fling.

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My brief experience of Japanese girls, were that they were more sophisticated than their Thai counterparts, but easy no way!

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Thai girls are very easy, but much more trouble. Even the "high society" ones. They are great to party with, and they shag well. A long term relationship is usually costly and/ or tiresome.

Japanese girls are much more civilized and intelligent, and are usually better for a long term relationship.

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